Surrender YOU to YOUrself!!!

in this big big world.....we come, we go.....we live, we respire...and we are lost!!!

Have YOU ever given a thought to how many hours of the day and night YOU spend  for others. Talking to a friend, gossiping about your enemy, fighting with your room-mate, hanging out with you girlfriend/boyfriend etc etc. Ugghh!! the list is just endless. But this is all for others, what about YOU haan?
Do you actually care how much time YOU spend with YOUrself...like really with YOU.

Go and ask people, and YOU'll come out with nullity.

I see many people crying, blaming, cursing their spouse, families, relations, of not spending adequate time with them or not giving them their precious hours , that they deserve. And a question instantly emerges  in my psyche :

the most promising relationship one have is with his/her own self...how much regard and time do we pay to it ? ...Well, the answer is again cipher!!

We ruin a lot of our time finding the defects, inferiority ,insufficiency in others without even bestowing them with the benefit of the doubt. We misjudge and mislead because we don't know what else to do. And the reason why we don't know what else to do, the reason of this ambiguos and dilemmatic situation is :
"When YOU actually cannot understand YOUrself, YOU can barely think of understanding others."

And here it is, the root-cause of many many problems in YOUr life is no-one but YOU!!

Many a times I think for myself, how little I know myself  and I Contrite!!. With each upcoming challenge each emerging situation I witness a new transcription of myself. A fragment exist in me that I've never known or might have never known if only I've not been observant towards me. Being faithful to YOU is as obligatory, as to anyone else.

So, now I can ask, have YOU ever given time to understand YOUrself?

Understanding YOU or YOUr conscience is not a meagre one-day or a month's process. It will consume YOU and YOUr time. All YOU have to do is, just don't give up on YOU and YOU'll find all different edges to YOUr own good self.Once YOU are better with YOU, YOU can work wonders with others...Can't YOU?

Aren't YOU just curious enough to know about YOUrself...Well I am...:)
Just give yourself a try and 

                                   Surrender YOU to YOUrself.

Give YOUrself a little bit of YOUr precious time....believe me YOU are worth it!!!

                                                

                                                  

hello there,
What a great startup I got this new year....immensely positive morning it came out to be for me...and the credits are dedicated to "SONAL KALRA" (famous author and columnist...naam to suna hi hoga..:P).
Many of you might be a frequent reader of her columns in HT ....and would have read "A Calmer yoU" published weekly .But for those who have not read Jan 1 Column "Are YOU ready to fall in LOVE"(A calmer you) you really missed it big times....a MARVEL this article was ...(err...C'mon I'm not over praising...you'll say that too after reading it...!!!).
For those who have read it...please go and save the article...it work wonders when your full with negative wibes around you. (I know ...some alrdy would have done this...:P)
For all those who didn't read it...or missed it unluckily...don't bother ...Main hoon na....(jus kiddin..:D:D)
here you can catch it up...
                                         A Calmer You by Sonal Kalra
Happy reading..:)
till my nxt blog


byee
cia...:)

hello there..)
friends I guess this has been a new subject in my RULE-BOOK now.....when every other student in this world is busy studying ,cramming and mugging all those stupid, some even worthleSS..!! topics of textbooks ...I found something more interesting to do....BL:OggiiNG!




know what!!!  these exams are really in a way  beneficial sometimes ....TRUST ME!!!
sonetimes it helps you bring out an ARTIST ,PAINTER, PHILOSOPHER ,WRITER ( errr!! c'mon bloggers are also one of a kind..:P:P) or even a POET sumtyms...aghass!!!
I mean beneficial to bring CREATIVITY out of you.


Believe me.....writing poems for a change isn't that bad sometimes (well .....before writing one, poems,especially philosophical one's, used to be one of a boring kind to me...:P)
and while turning and twisting pages of my boring textbook...one struck my mind too.
So, after writing one, I thought it isn't that bad to be shared on my blog....and here I am today sharing one of my leisure piece...
       
                                       
                                         SOME MOMENTS

some moments , so deep within,
some moments , BUT still missing .
one can crave its life for those,
but get them or not , we never CHOSE .
i missed them from my life in a way,
always found reasons to get away .

sometyms wen i sit alone n i think,
i can get a life i wish , in a blink .
doesn't mean my life is MISERABLE ,
but then ,getting those "some moments" is just IMMEASURABLE!!!

days when u'll get OLDER and u RE-THINK
u should have sumthing to give a thought ,
sumthing that brings a smile to ur face
i know , some will BUY it ,some will not .

i know true love just never exists
i know these are all , just FANTASY-CLICKS .
but then how it even came in THOUGHT ,
when anyone didn't felt it ,when anyone didn't BOUGHT .

LIFE is all about exploring ur wishes , exploring ur DREAMS,
but this exploring sumtyms makes u weak , n ur heart SCREAMS.
wish it wud b tht easy to get those dreams come true
no CRAVINGS, no WISHES , no REGRETS left,
the world seems cherished , the sky seems BLUE . 

After years ,when i'd be sitting alone on a PORCH
digging deeper to get all those moments to think bout,
All i wud b getting is , lack of those "some-moments"
All i wud b getting is ,  ......VOID ....just VOID !!!

Happy Writing.....:)

     till my next blog

     bubyee

     cia....:))

After a long time, I'm back again...today my BLOG is dedicated to our very mutual area of interest...something which has eventually become a place of ADDICTION to our lives...."FACEBOOK" ofcourse
I wish you'll find this part interesting enough to look upto...:)

A net freak person as I am,come across a lot o facts and tricks about FB each and every day,but these all mentioned below caught my interest, so I concluded them worth sharing.

Well for the first , A lot of times, I keep confused about -"Is there really any application through which I can check out who all visited my profile ?"...I guess most facebook-users got this question on their wishlist isn't it..??
So I spread out my search-wings and this is what I got ,have a look....
       
        http://www.hackhow.com/is-it-possible-to-know-who-visited-my-facebopage/ok-profile-
 
Now I hope atleast this dilemma of yours has been removed.


Eventually during my whole searching thing I got up with a strange thing in my mind-
how strange it is na...that we never look up for the full norms,agreements aand issues along with before starting up a new application...without taking care of how important and useful thing it can be .So in future atleast I'm gonna take care of that(umm.....il try to...:O)


Okay ,now the thing we all love doing -"Taking Shortcuts"
yeah!! indeed facebook has got that too .A lot of them you might be knowing already .For more have a look...
 
        http://www.hackhow.com/list-of-useful-keyboard-shortcuts-for-facebook-social-network/


And now the part I found The most interesting...
   
       30+ Facebook Tips/Tricks and Hacks that you Should Know
 
So that's all I got for now.Hope it proves to be useful to you.

HAPPY FACEBOOKING....:)
 
Cheers!!!

gradually in all those years when I was sitting back alone ,admiring any written piece of artwork of any kind , mesmerized and awed by the effect it used to have on me for like days ,weeks or sometimes months (even I'm having some childhood stories running at the back of my head currently) .I always used to think someday I will write a master-piece of my own too. (Err..childhood fantasies you know....:P).
But then, with time, I eventually realised ,every article in this world is not always meant to be a part of the shining-stars ,some becomes a piece of trash too ,never praised or talked about ,never touching heights like their own counterparts ,never even getting fortunate enough to mesmerize someone for days or months.


harsh but truthful!!!
Took like eternity for me to get face-to face with .
But along with time I also understood that its not the after-results that matter ,"its the generosity and bravery in rising your thoughts above the horizons"-Anonymous said to me....!!!
The courage is in raising your upbringings from the tiny-little pool(Err...your own head!!!) to the huge vastness as of a sea or a sky (Err....real world!!!) .


Hii there!!!
This is Deepika ,not a big face of a magazine or a famous author or a big-big business tycoon to relate with.
Just a part of this huge world ,lying somewhere and writing this to you.


Well ,in accordance to pre-set rules, some says one should introduce oneself to the audience (umm....like a real-detailed kinda introduction!!!).But I think otherwise.Cuz (...Because) I'm not here to show who I am but rather "What I think".And about "Who I am" . I guess every other article will carry a little piece of me.So figuring me out isn't going to be that hard too....:D:D .....#just kidding.


Apparently!!! there are other important things to talk about,...I suppose .


So, hey bloggers ,here adds another one to your blogging-world....and as I see currently no-one's here to wave or welcome me ,I welcome myself here...:)


I'm not here to change the world but to present the thoughts that eventually can be part of a thoughtful-society.


So as I see that's too much to say in a go...I take myself to sign-off from here and bid a smiling good-bye to you all.


till my next blog.
tada and cya...:)